The Boundary Builder
Let me guess…
You’re not struggling because you don’t love your kids.
You’re struggling because your brain is doing 12 jobs at once, and by 3:47pm you’re running on fumes.
And somehow you’re still expected to:
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respond calmly
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hold boundaries kindly
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stay consistent
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and keep the peace
So you try.
You explain nicely.
You give warnings.
You negotiate.
You repeat yourself 19 times.
…and then you snap.
Not because you’re a bad mom.
Because your capacity ran out.
This is not a “be more productive” tool.
This is a self-trust tool.
The Boundary Builder is a printable script pack that gives you the words to say when you need boundaries right now—without guilt, yelling, or over-explaining.
You’ll know exactly what to say when:
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your kid argues
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your partner “doesn’t notice” what needs to happen
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your family pushes back
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you start doubting yourself
Because the goal isn’t perfection.
The goal is:
calm leadership with less emotional drain.
Inside The Boundary Builder, you’ll get:
✅ One-sentence boundary scripts that work when you’re overstimulated
âś… Phrases for kids who whine, negotiate, melt down, or push back
âś… Scripts for transitions (leaving the house, bedtime, cleanup)
âś… Scripts for screens + devices without the daily debate
âś… Scripts for snacks + food boundaries that reduce chaos
âś… Scripts for chores + follow-through so you stop carrying everything
✅ Scripts for family + friends who don’t respect your “no”
✅ Scripts for your partner that aren’t blame-y, just clear
âś… Scripts for your inner voice when guilt starts talking
âś… A Quick Reference Page (print it, stick it on the fridge, use it daily)